A long job search can be very similar to a grueling endurance race. Like trained marathon runners, most job seekers start out feeling hopeful, idealistic and confident. But as the miles drag on, our perspective starts to change. Somewhere around the fifth or sixth month, we start to question our job search strategy and even some of our most important life decisions. At best, this period of self-doubt can push us to make helpful changes in our networking approach. But at worst, it can cause us to lower our employment standards, make rash choices, or give up the job search altogether.
Don’t let this happen. When the going gets rough, keep an eye out for these tricky hurdles that can send even the most promising job search process to the sidelines.
Watch Out for These Job Search Obstacles
1. Taking rejection personally
Real life experience involves rejection. This is one of the most important lessons that adults have down cold and children have yet to learn. Whenever we set out to sell something, from a product to a service to ourselves, we have to accept that not every person we encounter will fall into our target market. But remember: every “no” brings us closer to the inevitable “yes”. And when it comes to job hunting, we only need one.
2. Listening to the wrong people
Like new parents and college freshmen, job seekers are besieged with well- meaning advice…from everyone. Every person in the world, from parents to roommates to self-appointed mentors, will want to tell you the secret to career success. Take every tip with a grain of salt, and when you feel vulnerable, actively tune out anyone who tends to steer you astray or bring you down.
3. Chasing the wrong jobs
Don’t chase jobs you don’t want. These can include 1) jobs in other states if you don’t plan to move, 2) jobs that make your heart sink even as you read the posting, 3) and jobs you know perfectly well you aren’t qualified to do. This may sound obvious, but foolish pursuits are a surprisingly common trend among job seekers, especially those who are struggling to make ends meet and worried about the financial future. It can be hard to pass up an opportunity that we know, deep down, is terribly wrong for us. But just be strong and keep looking. You’ll be glad you did.
4. Setting the bar too high or too low
When the search gets rough, job seekers often overreach (see above), or start pursuing jobs they held years ago before their last two promotions. Being overqualified won’t make you a more attractive candidate. In fact, it can have the opposite effect, and being rejected from jobs far beneath your ability level can be demoralizing.
5. Comparing ourselves to others
Don’t compare yourself to others. You may have been laid off with ten other people, seven of whom are now working again. But thinking too hard about this can undermine your focus, interfere with your perspective, and hold you back. Don’t look at the other runners in the race… Just keep your eyes forward and keep moving.
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